Finding the perfect partner and love in life definitely happens by luck and the grace of god. Otherwise how could I find Takara amongst such a big crowd of online daters and that too from a distant country like Japan! I still don’t believe my luck that I am blessed with the love and care of such a wonderful lady in my life. Not only is she a wonderful person, but comes from a great family of virtuous parents, who gave her all her goodness.
I met her by sheer luck online. I would say luck because I am not an online dater, and neither believed in online dating. I have always been busy with my software and network engineering studies in my student life, and had little time for partying around or dating etc. I was the typical studious type, always spending myself in books.
I went to my friend’s place
One day I was called by a friend to inspect some network problems in his computer, and resolve the issue. This friend of mine was a real online dating addict, who would practically spend all his time flirting with girls online, playing games, and indulging in social media sites. In one word he was the typical teenager always striving for more fun, activity and attention.
Now naturally he had big lists of fans and friends everywhere in all of his online profiles and dating accounts. The main problem with these types of personalities is that, they care little about serious long term relationships, and only care for light friendship and fun filled flirting.
Takara contacted me
When I was looking for the problem in his network connections I wasn’t aware that my life would take a turning point that day. I had resolved the problem after some time, and my work was done. I was spending some time on his system looking at this and that, and surfing through his open accounts and profiles, as I knew he won’t mind me looking through them.
Suddenly a chat window popped up in the screen from one of his online dating accounts. A girl was saying “Hi”. It was Takara. I don’t know what took me over, but I started replying back to her as my friend. In a short while, we felt glued to each other as we were exploring interesting subjects and topics in our discussion.
I confessed to both of them
In the meantime my friend came back, and I confessed the truth to him, that I was chatting from his id as him. He said me to tell the truth to the girl too, so that I may get the opportunity to talk to her later.
That was the starting point and then I was also glued on to the Japanese dating site, and learned the online dating customs slowly as I read more about it. We met after a long gap. It took us almost a year to fix our minds for meeting, as Takara didn’t want to spend time with someone unless she was real sure about her interests in the person. I had no problem waiting either, as I knew that she was already mine, and now we date steadily.
It was during those days, that I found how vast is the field of online dating, and how profitable it can be to date online. You see, there are as such no expenditures other than your internet connection expenses, and you may know not only one person, but more than one person at a time.
You may feel like avoiding or cutting the relationship after some time, if you do not feel the person fit for dating. Then also it takes nothing much but to politely refuse the connection and ignore the person. However it would have taken, worries, tears, quarrels, and heart breaks in case of dating in real in person. I understood these plus points in those days, and now suggest my lonely friends to get help online.